Men love their children. They want to have tha same opportunities to bond with tha child as they are not tha carrier. Far too often society dictates how we view men as fathers no matter how incorrect tha information may be. Men that work hard to provide for their children while instilling discipline and love are often overlooked to make tha point that dads are deadbeat. Too many women are sacrificing tha well being of their children for their personal issues with tha father. No one benefits in that situation and that father suffers right along with tha child believe it 'R' not. There are men that hurt deeply in private because they long to spend time with their babies. This is something that has to stop for tha sake of tha well being of fathers and children mentally. This also gives mothers a chance to have tha breaks they so badly need to re-group after childbirth and to center themselves mentally. Women can’t complain that they are stressed out doing everything when they are not willing to respect tha parental balance fathers provide.Look! all I'm saying If we are not going to have tha same discussion about abusive, absentee, deadbeat moms without questioning their parental standing... Then we must re-evaluate how we view fathers. Many brothers change diapers, get up at night for feedings, cook, do laundry, give baths, help with homework, tend to sick kids, participate in extracurricular activities, and have an active role in tha overall development of their children...Men are not just paychecks…we can be parents as well too Furthermore, statically most Men that women give that respect of being more than a paycheck when it comes to his child are children end up working alongside as a team. Nothing in lyfe is without its challenges on both ends but there are many men committed to tha wellbeing of their children. Tha media doesn’t want us to see how many women are not going through pregnancy, and parenthood alone because he is present to help her in every way he can. There are men that have walked with their children from tha day he knew tha child was coming into this world to tha day he took his last breath.
Bottom Line Men deserve to have their parenthood, and fatherhood respected. Our Kidz needs their father just as much as they need their mother. So many men are amazing fathers and partners. See I'm a true believer of it take two to tangle. So when it comes to this whole ChildSupport thing I think due to tha FACT that It took to parties and etc.. And as we all can agree on we must take responsibility for our own actions. (Meaning you can be just as tha blame as him are her..) Then both parents should be put on child support ( 6 months with her and then 6 months with him) ...No matter what since it took two then two will have to pay not just one but both no exceptions same rule and regulations... I'll guarantee you tha case being file will drop significantly.....which would open tha door for other issues would correct itself due to they have no choice.....We can't keep keeping this up Fathers Must be Respected.
