Have you ever try to learn from a past perverse situation rather if it was an argument with your spouse are etc. and you so call using tool that you pick up on from last time to avoid an come out... But that outcome still happen!!.. That's that shit I don't like and don't understand.....When it comes to relationships in any type they say communication is tha important key to its success... Which to be honest I do agree But how do you communicate with someone who refuses to hear are just listen...... In lyfe, you learn sometimes people just want you to listen that's it nothing else but to listen... Okay with that said! what do you do when you do just that and they still display frustration How do you communicate with someone when you take heed of tha things they pointed out to you that you do as an individual.. by displaying action in tha future an doing what they suggest and that still go to tha left... Rather if its wait until things die down and asking a question that maintains to tha previous conversation.Just to clear up any type of misunderstanding.. Knowing damn well if you would have asked that same question while tha conversation was happening it would have it's ability to escalated and etc.. Even with that said somehow tha question you ask still provide way that tha individual flip it and trigger tha escalation.. and seeing that you quickly remove yourself to avoid tha storm you saw brewing up in his/her facial expression...Now tha same person who refuses to hear what you saying are etc. is doing tha things they ask you not to do rather it's coming where at invading tha space you personal provide for yourself so there wouldn't be any conflict... Not allowing you to just re-group are just let it go Even with that you still react to them as if you would want them to react to you... Now they tha one asking you tha question are questions that they so call got pissed off at you asking ( Now they not doing what they say you should have done Just let him/her be)...{ I guess it's justified for them} Especially when they ask you a question and tha min you go to answer it instead of just listening for tha answer and trying to make sense out of this so it won't happen again they just interrupt you and answer tha question for you... And when you try to make them see what they do "which is not letting you tha person they ask tha question to answer" If you know tha answer already why ask?... Is it to continue with something you don't wont to let go and if so I don't understand how He/She can continue with are do in a drop of a dime that they hate soooo fucking much... You would think regardless if you see someone showing signs to avoid conflict. An Individual would knowledge that and allow tha other parties to do just that Instead of engorging more in something they hate so fucking much...I just don't get it...An whats really fucks me up is when he/she think tha determination of all this was making it about you.. when all you did was used tha tools to avoid all this... When do tha other party realize all she/he did was ask a question to educated themselves it wasn't question to criticize tha other party in no way at all....FYI when this becomes a constant thing no matter what his/her voice becomes like fingernails on a chalkboard.. So if you ever find your self in tha presence of someone whos hitting themselves in tha head as you screaming and etc..There trying to stop you from (metaphor speaking) scratching their chalkboard...Especially if all they trying to do is what you claim they don't do.. either listen, re-group, avoid conflict are just understanding clearly so they won't do it again....
