Let me state for tha record, I am fully aware that grown
folks have tha right to do whatever they choose. With that being said every now and then we
need to be reminded about what is #important.
When we are striving to be our best person we won’t need to attention
seek, because we will have the attention of those that matter. Attention addiction is not going to make
anyone famous long lasting, and the 15min of fame is not worth tha
#consequence. Please know when to close
your door in order to tend to self, kids, and love ones.
Seeking attention in tha area of #personalrelationships is
at an all-time high. People, seriously, somethings should stay between you and
your significant other. It’s astonishing
to see 2 people fight, and air all of their personal business all over #socialmedia. It’s one big attention spectacle whereby each
side is basically trying to get others to agree with a situation that has
nothing to do with them. This causes
relationships, and marriage to go up in smoke.
At some point we must move to a level of maturity to understand that our
personal business should stay personal.
One of tha things that make relationships hard these days is tha 2
involved are not talking to each other…they are fussing through technology with
an audience.#Intimacy is dying on social media. It’s cool to show love and care
for our significant other. Upliftment is
special…when it’s real. Some should be
at home working on their relationships, but instead we’re on social media
painting a picture of perfection that is going to crash as publicly as it was
displayed. Social media is not a
person…please don’t be so caught in being seen that you lose what makes your
lyfe special.
It is quite normal to want others around us to recognize
that we are moving forward in our lyfe.
It is okay to seek acknowledgement from one’s own community. However, addiction to attention is very
dangerous. Thanks to social media we
live in a time by which we can share just about every detail of our
#lyfeexpression . While some would
argue: others have no right to judge how I choose to live…once we make our
lives public it is open to public opinion.
I would advise tough skin.
Nothing seems sacred or personal anymore. We are being plugged, daily, into tha
intimate parts of tha lives of people we know, and people we don’t know at
all. While being open has its
advantages… being addicted to attention can actually destroy tha relationships
we hold dear to us. I often wonder has society ever been this vain -Look at me
Look at me- seems to be tha claim to fame.
Ladies and Gents if you have babies it’s great to be excited about tha
new blessing, however some things are not noteworthy. Being a parent does require sacrifice, and it
seems that so many want a pat on the back for doing what they should do as a
parent. Tha child did not choose to be
here, and some of us actively sought #parenthood. Being rest broken, changing diapers, and
making bottles…basically caring for our little one is what we do as
parents.However, it reads to seem that tha child is more of a burden than a
blessing.
Others may feel that
venting is necessary at times…again very true.
However, how about we turn to a trusted family member or friend (when it comes to certain things) verses tha
#WorldWideWeb where there is more jealousy and envy then we would ever know
trust me. Everyone is not in your corner
wishing you well. Just as we ask some to
pray for us…there are those that will voluntarily pray against us at tha same
damn time. Especially when you ask for
it....That why I be a bit more reserve.
If you a person that absolutely can’t stay offline start a private group
with people you trust. Tha attention
seeking in this area takes away from tha beauty of lyfe.
It may be hard for some to hear…but it’s about time now.
